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Other than that, Mrs. Lincoln, how was the play? January 22, 2011

Filed under: Haiti,Opinions — themadmadmadmadworld @ 11:56 am
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Despite Haiti’s best efforts to keep me there, including the suprise arrival of former dictator “Baby Doc” Duvalier, I arrived back home Wednesday night. This morning Louis and I are driving back to Ottawa with a bunch of my stuff, to start the slow process of “settling in” to my new old life.

Every time I come home from an adventure, people ask “How was it?” Depedning on who’s asking and how much they actually care about my experience, I’ll usually have a few stock answers ready and a maybe a couple of entertaining anecdotes (of varying degrees of PG-ratings) to give an idea of what I got up to while I was away. But with Haiti it’s a different kind of answer. How was it? Well…

Spending time volunteering in Haiti didn’t exactly lend itself to the tidy adventure stories or cute cultural mixups that everyone likes hearing about from other people’s travels. When people ask me how Haiti was, I feel like there are several scenarios that play out:

1. “It was crazy, I really enjoyed my time there, I met some amazing people and got to see and do some interesting things.” Done in under 30 seconds. Not exactly representative of how it really was, but perfect for casual acquaintances or people just asking to be polite.

2. We talk at length about what I did, who I met, and how I felt about things. This is usually reserved for people who know me well and are genuinely interested in my experience. The downside to this conversation is that it can take up to 3 days and often ends in Creole hip-hop on YouTube and tears.

3. We have the “Solution For Haiti” converstaion. I completely understand why people want to talk about this, and it’s probably the conversation I would want to have if it hadn’t been me that had gone there. This usually happens with people who are somewhat knowledgeable about development issues and the situation in Haiti, or who are just genuinely interested in learning more. It’s also the conversation I most dread having. I feel like since I spent half a year in the thick of the “development issues” facing Haiti, I should be in the know and have well-formed opinions about how things are going and how we can help things go better. The truth is, I feel like I know much less now than I did before I went. I could tell you lots about Leogane, my friends there, some of the ways that “The Issues” affect their daily lives, and some of the ways that various actors are trying to “fix” these things. I could tell you a bit about NGO stuff, but mostly just what was going on around me. I could tell you a bit about the local government situation, but again, only what directly affected what we were doing in Leogane. As far as the grand scheme of things, you probably know just as much as I do. We got a lot of our Haiti information from international news sources like the BBC just like everyone back at home. And as far as “The Solution For Haiti”, your guess is as good as mine. I figure if there was A Solution and I knew what it was, I’d be down there implementing it. Wouldn’t I?

I always feel like a jerk having these talks, but I figure the more time I have to process my experience the better I’ll get at it. I don’t want to make people feel like they shouldn’t ask me about Haiti, because I do want to talk about it and I do want to answer everyone’s questions if I can. I’m glad that people are interested in what’s going on in Haiti and want to know what can be done to improve things. I apologize in advance if you’re not happy with how I respond, but give me time and hopefully I’ll come up with something that will satisfy both of us and make me feel like I’m doing justice to an experience that I really can’t describe. In the meantime, I’m going to get reacquainted with my friends, family, my matress and my old friend cheddar cheese.

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4 Responses to “Other than that, Mrs. Lincoln, how was the play?”

  1. Sharon Warren Says:

    Hey Madison,
    Your comments have been amazing. Should be published or something. Good luck with your return to Canada. Probably some culture shock for you. We’ll be in Ottawa early April so hope to see you. Love, Sharon

  2. Mer Says:

    Don’t apologize for your comments. Your open mindedness is why you made friends and connections with the Hatian people you met. You understand that issues are complex, that good intentions don’t always lead to good solutions and that listening can be more powerful than speaking. We need more observers, more people to ask questions. Think than act. Empower!
    Always fear simple answers for complex problems.

    I think what you have been doing is great.

  3. Sarah Neale Says:

    Dear Madison – I have loved your blog. We will all be happy to have you back in Canada because we miss you – Haiti’s loss is our gain. As we cannot be at the WWW we hope you will soon come to Toronto to visit us ( Sam is here now too)- drop in on the way from Ottawa even, maybe?
    Hope to see you often enough that we can have an ongoing conversation about Haiti.
    Much love, take care Sarah and co.xxx

  4. Rosie Hageraats Says:

    Godspeed Madison!
    Im glad you posted the nutshell version of your impressions on Haiti.
    By the time I get to ask you about it, Im sure you’ll have digested a bit more!
    Enjoy your time back home! Beaver tails, poutine and good friends :)
    Love Rosie


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